David Essel’s 8 Laws to Attract Success

8 laws to attract success

David Essel’s 8 Laws to Attract Success

The “Law of Attraction” excites Americans with dreams coming true, like imagining “checks in the mail “, so that we become millionaires. Or that by having a vision board we will somehow magically attract our soulmate to us. It taps into the emotional side of many people who love to live in this realm of life. But it’s not very realistic.
It’s more “wishful thinking” than anything else.

Let’s think for a moment. If a program offers huge results, with little to no effort, isn’t it time to stop buying into the insanity?

Millions of people have used this technique, yet few will ever find success from ” fantastical affirmations.”

So, where do we go from here?

David has the answer that will help people breakthrough this “wishful thinking” in order to get the real RESULTS they desire.

Inside David’s #1 best-selling book, “Positive thinking will never change your life…but this book will! The myth of positive thinking, the reality of success,” he shares that affirmations are a great way to start the day. But it doesn’t matter how much emotion someone puts behind them, they are never going to radically change anyone’s life, unless it’s a miracle. Enough of the nonsense!

The following information can be used by anyone to create the life they desire. After interviewing David on her national radio show, celebrity host Jenny McCarthy encouraged her millions of listeners to follow the outline in his #1 best selling book. This book is already endorsed by hundreds upon hundreds of people.

In Jenny’s words, “David Essel is the new leader, of the positive thinking movement.”

Below are excerpts from David’s book, which has already been endorsed by six New York Times best selling authors.

“DAVID ESSEL’S 8 LAWS to ATTRACT SUCCESS”

Number 1. The ability to be successful lies within everyone. Yes, you can create an incredible income, lose the weight you desire, create deep loving relationships, release addictions and find a pathway to your creator. You have THE RIGHT to be successful, as much anyone else on this earth.

Number 2. Unless it’s a miracle, your thoughts are not powerful enough to create success on their own. Your thoughts will not create “checks in the mail”, weight loss, nor will they attract the perfect lover. We’ve been fed nonsense if we believe these success fallacies. This is crucial to not only understand, but to accept as true.

Number 3. The number one block to success, are the beliefs held deep within the subconscious mind. The role of the subconscious, is to keep you exactly where you are, which is commonly referred to as the “comfort zone of life.” Now, this doesn’t mean that the “comfort zone”, or these subconscious thoughts are healthy. Wherever you are lacking success, we can guarantee that your subconscious thoughts are sabotaging the success you desire.

Number 4. A thought, regardless of how positive it is, cannot change a negative behavior long term. Unless it’s a miracle. You cannot “think, or affirm”, your way out of an addiction, financial hardship or a terrible relationship.

Number 5. The only way to turn the subconscious mind around, from a saboteur to an ally, is to repetitively, on a daily basis, do the action steps you would rather not do. Success demands that we all invest more time, effort and money into our biggest goals. Over time, you can create a subconscious mindset that will continue to push you forward on your path of success.

Number 6. In 37 years of work in the field of personal growth, we have found on average that an individual who is struggling with addiction, weight, finances or their love life… Will have to put approximately 12 months, or 365 days of doing the work they would rather not do, in the area of life they are struggling with, in order to turn the subconscious mind around.

Number 7. Through action steps into the uncomfortable for a 12-month period time, the uncomfortable just becomes who you are. Where in the beginning it was a struggle to lose 100 pounds, at the end of 12 months of changing your diet and exercise habits, the new habits simply become who you are. An effortless part of your life. Success.

Number 8. Affirmations, vision boards, and the like, will be important for only 20% of your success. Regardless of what you’ve been told, statements such as, “what you think about you bring about” are not true. Unless it’s a miracle, 80% of your success will come from your willingness to do the steps you would rather not do on a daily basis. This is the true “secret” of success.

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David Essel's Daily Video Boost

#1 best-selling author announces
“David Essel’s Daily Video Boost”
A Daily Video Series To Inspire & Make 2017 The Best Year Ever!

DO YOU NEED A “LITTLE DAILY BOOST” TO HELP YOU STAY ON TRACK WITH YOUR GOALS FOR 2017?

DID YOU KNOW THAT 90% OF PEOPLE HAVE ALREADY, AS OF TODAY, STOPPED WORKING ON THEIR BIG GOALS FOR THIS YEAR?

DAVID WANTS TO BE YOUR DAILY COACH, COUNSELOR AND CHEERLEADER TO HELP YOU ACHIEVE YOUR BIGGEST GOALS.

AND EVERYONE CAN AFFORD TO HAVE HIS VIDEOS WITH YOU EVERY WEEKDAY THIS YEAR!

WATCH THIS SUPER SHORT VIDEO RIGHT HERE:

These daily video tips will help you:

1. Shatter procrastination forever!

2. Get highly focused on the most important goal for you in 2017.

3. Learn how to get off the fence in life and into daily action to make your dreams a reality…

4. Find an accountability partner so that you can hold each other’s feet to the fire to do what’s needed every day.

6. Shatter any negative attitude or mindset that has been keeping you back from living at your full potential.

7. Learn how to make the first 30 minutes of every day the powerful breeding grounds for a positive mental attitude.

8. Shake off the subconscious sabotaging thoughts that can get in the way of the most well intended person when trying to create a dynamic new life.

9. Create daily action steps that will actually bring the results you so desire to you…Not mindless activity…But rather action steps that are both meaningful and specific.

10. And finally, learn how to boost your own self-confidence and self-esteem so that you carry this practice forward for the rest of the year.

For the past 36 years I have devoted my life to helping people to create the life that they’ve always wanted.

Here’s an opportunity for me to be your daily mentor, your daily coach, your daily counselor, and most importantly that person in your life that is always there with a confident and positive attitude to inspire you to reach beyond where you’ve gone in the past…And to create the life you want.

How Does It Work?

Every Monday through Friday people will receive his or her video of the day sent directly to their e-mail inbox.

The subscription will only cost $9.95 per month! It’s less than 50 cents per day, and people will have motivational & #1 best selling author, David Essel in their back pocket starting on March 1st, 2017.

For the rest of 2017, David will be right there to make sure that no sliding backwards occurs…And if it should, David will be there the very next day to help subscribers stay inspired on their new path in 2017.

Nine-time author, master life coach and national radio host is crowned the
“New Leader of The Positive Thinking Movement” by radio & TV host/actress Jenny McCarthy

“David Essel’s Daily Video Boost” is the antidote to all negativity from social media!

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Love

David

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The Most Important Component of Love? Find out

What is the most important component of love?

Is it gifts? Sex? Compatibility?

Watch this super short video to find out.

And…Happy Valentine’s Day!

About David Essel, M.S.

“David Essel’s destiny is to help you become more alive in every area of your life.” ~ Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

David Essel, Positive Thinking Will NEVER Change Your Life… But This Book Will, motivational speaker, coaching and mentoring career counselor, confidence, how to be confident, relationship questions, best motivational speakers, career path, healthy relationships, best way to lose weight, self confidence, money advice, addict, relationships, career assessment, life advice.

David Essel, M.S., for 30 years, has been considered one of the leading experts in the field of personal growth.

He is a #1 Best Selling Author of 9 books, a TV/Radio Host, Master Business, Relationship &

Success Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Addiction Recovery Coach and an All Faiths Minister.

His newest #1 Best selling book is : “Positive Thinking Will NEVER Change Your Life… BUT THIS BOOK WILL! The Myth of Positive Thinking, THE REALITY OF SUCCESS”

Master Business, Relationship, and Success Coach, TV/Radio Host, Author of 9 Books, Inspirational Speaker

David began his career in the health and fitness industry and quickly was named “Mr. Motivation” and “The #1 Life Coach in the USA.” by Lifetime Television and “The Master of Motivation” by American Fitness magazine.

He parlayed this worldwide reputation into the world of athletes and athletics after getting his Master’s Degree in Fitness Management, where his emphasis on sport psychology led him to work as the “Mental Success Counselor” for basketball and tennis players from around the USA.

In 1990, a chance encounter with an athletic client who desired a life free of resentments against her former husband, led him deeply into the world of relationship work, with both singles and couples.

That same year he became one of the first nationally recognized Master Life Coaches in the USA, as his work was featured weekly on national radio and television shows. In 1996 David created Life Coach Universe, a Life Coach Certification organization that has certified individuals wanting to make a difference in this world from across the USA, Spain, Bermuda, and the Cayman Islands.

For 25 years, David’s nationally syndicated radio talk show, ” David Essel Alive!” has been heard via Westwood One , XM Satellite Radio and Premiere Radio/ Clear Channel Communications on iHeart Radio. David now hosts 2 nationally syndicated radio shows heard every Saturday morning and evening.

His national work as a motivational segment reporter and host in television began in 1988 with WWOR-TV, then Fox TV’s “Good Day New York” as well as Lifetime Television’s “The Image Workshop”, and the popular Fox TV show “The Morning Blend”.

David has helped thousands of people from around the world achieve their greatest goals in every area of life. From doubling and even tripling their income, to freedom from addictions, preparation for deep love, getting the body they’ve always wanted, releasing long held negative attitudes, overcoming deep depression and anxiety, overcoming emotional and sexual abuse, changing careers or creating dramatic success as business owners, public speaking, as well as helping couples recover from affairs and creating a deep personal connection with God or one’s higher power. David is a renowned expert in the field of co-dependency, where he has helped thousands of people from around the world shatter the “largest addiction known to man.”

There are no topics or circumstances David has not encountered, and helped people overcome, over the past 30 years.

His mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and personal life.

Learn more about David and what he does right here http://davidessel.com/

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David Essel is Giving Away His #1 Best Seller All Week Long!

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Hey Gang!
 
As a way to thank you for making our book a #1 best seller, we are giving the kindle version away FREE!!
 
Yes, our 9th book “Positive Thinking Will Never Change Your Life…But This Book Will! The Myth of Positive Thinking, The Reality of Success”, is free. The Kindle Version for a limited time!
 
1) From Tuesday February 7th until Friday February 10th you can get the Kindle Version free by visiting www.davidessel.com
 
2) Share this email with your friends and family too!
 
If you are ready to learn the truth about how to achieve you goals, you will want your very own copy of this best selling book!  
 
The book is endorsed by 6 NY Times best selling authors, and celebrity/TV/radio host Jenny McCarthy says:  
 
“David Essel is the new leader of the Positive Thinking movement.”
 
We thank you for your ongoing support!!
 

Love,

TEAM DAVID  

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Make America’s Intimacy Great Again!

Make America’s Intimacy Great Again!

After seeing months of negative commentary on social media, we decided to take a different approach.

Let’s focus on enhancing our levels of physical intimacy because….

1. When you’re having sex… You won’t complain about politics.
2. When you’re having sex… You won’t complain about the marches and demonstrations
3. When you’re having more sex… You won’t be posting and arguing on Facebook.
4. When you’re having more sex… The core area of your body becomes more conditioned and toned
5. When you’re having more sex… Your immune system function is much better.
6. When you’re having more sex… Your attitude improves, you actually become a better person
Please share… Right after you have more sex… Love David ️❣️

Make America’s Intimacy Great Again!

Lets look at the facts:

Many people in relationships, as well as obviously many single individuals in the USA, complain about a lack of sexuality. They become frustrated, that one of the most pleasurable activities on the face of this planet, is somehow eluding them.

COUPLES:

For couples, in the past 36 years of my work as a counselor and life coach, when there’s too little sex in a love relationship there are dangers to look out for:

1. Can easily lead to resentment.

2. Can easily lead to arguments

3. Can easily lead to passive aggressive, negative behaviors

4. Can easily lead to emotional affairs

5. Can easily lead to physical affairs, and the possible demise or destruction of their love relationship.

Benefits of regular sex at least two times per week:

1. Improves sleep

2. Decreases stress

3. Decreases pain sensation in the body

4. Increases your desire to have more sex

5. Lowers blood pressure

6. Increases your emotional connection with your partner

7. Decreases your risk of heart attack

8. Decreases your risk of colds and flu.

SINGLE:

If you’re single, the benefits of self-love, or sexual self pleasure, also known as masturbation is:

1. For men, a possible decrease in the risk of prostate cancer

2. For men, a decrease in erectile dysfunction

3. A boost in our mood for both men and women, through the release of oxytocin and dopamine

4. Helps individuals to get to know their own body, what turns them on, so that when they’re in a relationship they know what to share with their partner

5. For teenage girls, teaching self pleasure, allows them to know that can take care of their own desires by themselves, and do not need to risk having sex with boys in order to feel sexual pleasure, DECREASING TEEN PREGNANCY AND THE SPREAD OF STD’S.

6. For teenage boys, the same applies. When they realize they can take care of their own intimate needs, there’s less risk of being with a teenage girl in order to get the benefits of sexual satisfaction, DECREASING TEEN PREGNANCY AND THE SPREAD OF STD’S.

MORE BENEFITS?

Lasting power for men.
A release of negative beliefs for women.

In David’s number one best-selling book “Positive thinking will never change your life with this book will! The myth of positive thinking, the reality of success”, he tells about his own journey to become a better, longer lasting partner .

A challenge for many men, is to learn the techniques necessary to be able to train their body to not “release to soon” during the process of making love. Through his many interviews with sex therapists, like Dr Barbara Keesling, he took these exercises to heart, which any man can, and by practicing these exercises was able to fulfill his partners desires, without releasing too soon.

In his own practice, he shared these techniques with hundreds of men, and when they practice these on their own they all found outstanding end results in the bedroom.

He has also helped thousands of women, who desire a greater enjoyment of sexuality, by helping them to work through their fears, resentments, and even guilt and shame that can inhibit, and actually destroy one’s desire for healthy sexual activity.

He’s also helped women learn how to communicate their needs, both emotional and physical regarding sex, so that their partnerships grow to a more intimate and rewarding level.

As he talks about during his lectures on intimacy, love and sexuality, people who learn how to fulfill their partners desires, while also being able to express their own wants and needs in the area of sexuality, have the most lasting and fulfilling love relationships.

NOW…………. is your chance to enhance your level of intimacy, and take advantage of all of the emotional, physical and psychological advantages that we discussed in this important post!

Join David in his popular 10 week course, “Love and Relationships”, which you can take with a friend , partner or by yourself, via phone, Skype or in David’s Florida office.

Join today right here, http://davidessel.com/love-relationships-10-hour-course
(Mention this post and save 10% if you join us before February 14, 2017!)

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Huge Goal For 2017?… Read this.

Huge Goal For 2017?… Read this.
Why?
It’s 1986. I’m speaking at a large fitness conference, in a round table of other business and fitness experts. The audience is totally tuned in to what each of us are saying… And then one guy who I never met speaks up. His name was Joe Cirulli .

I didn’t know his full story, and was blown away when I found out that here was a guy who was homeless… Living in his car… Who now sitting in front of us as a millionaire in an industry people say you can’t make money. He owns health clubs.

When the presentation was over he actually came to me, and congratulated me on a job well done. I couldn’t believe it. Here he had accomplished all of these great things in life, and I was basically six years into my career and he was telling me I did a good job.

I knew I had to get to know this guy… And within a very short period of time I was asking him for advice… And learning more than I could ever believe. Eventually, I was proud to call Joe one of the greatest mentors I’ve ever had.

I’ll never forget when I asked him one day what the secret to ongoing business success was… And he said “David you’ll never accomplish anything huge on your own… You really need to get involved with mastermind groups, consultants and coaches to make sure that you’re doing everything possible to be successful.”

From that day forward I took his advice and he’s always right on.

How about you? Do you have a huge goal for 2017? Do you have a team of people in place to help you? Consultants? Coaches? Mentors? Mastermind groups?

If you don’t… I can almost guarantee you the goal will not be achieved. We need people to inspire us… Hold our feet to the fire… In other words a hold us accountable.

For most of us, the human brain is not powerful enough to keep us on track. If it was, you and I right now would have every goal we’ve ever intended to have.

But it’s not that easy is it?

To make this year different… You must invest more time more energy and more money into your growth. It’s simple just not easy.

But don’t fool yourself and think that this is going to be the year of you… If you think you’re going to do it on your own. If you could’ve done it on your own you already would’ve done it. Proof, that we need outside help.

If I can help you, I would love to. For 26 years I’ve helped thousands of people as a counselor and a life coach to accomplish the most incredible dreams they ever could’ve imagined in their life.

From losing 120 pounds and keeping it off, to recovering from multiple addictions, helping couples after an affair create deep love, helping individuals who have never owned a house… To get their financial situation in order so they could finally buy their first home ever… And the list goes on and on.

Write down your goals. Then bring someone into your life like myself to hold you accountable. If you’re serious, visit my website or text our office at 941.266.7676

I’m excited for you. 2017 can be the year of you. To accomplish anything you want, or just about anything you want, you’ll need outside help. Commit to you. Commit to you now. You will forever be grateful to yourself… For following the advice given to me 30 years ago by my friend and mentor Joe.

Wishing you the best for 2017. David Essel

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2017… Is This Your Year?

Why?

2017… Is this your year?

For many people, 2016 absolutely sucked. For other people it was a massive breakthrough. For the most part, this coming year, 2017, whether it’s sucks or it’s awesome will be up to you and me to decide.

What will you decide? And it won’t be from your thought process. The outcome is never decided by what you think, or you intend to, or you affirm…the decision is only proved true by what you do on a daily basis.

I’m halfway home. Halfway to the end of my life. This year was a fairly big one for me as I turned 60 years old. I plan on living to 120 years of age or older. I have a lot of life left. I have a lot to learn. I’m open to learning. How about you?

2016 was an incredible learning year for me. An adventure. Some incredible success that I’ve never accomplish before in my life, as well as some failures. Some choices I made that didn’t work in the direction I’d hoped.

But I can tell you this. We’re dying. Every day we are closer to death.

Which makes this post incredibly important for you. Are you living? Are you truly living? Is life filled with adventure? Joy? In other words are you taking risks, large risks every week? If not. You’re dying. Right now. In front of your own eyes.

You can change this. Only you can. Your husband or wife can’t. Your parents can’t. Your siblings can’t. Your best friend can’t. Even God can’t. Not because he wouldn’t like to. But because of the concept of free will.

This is where it gets great. You have the free will to do whatever the hell you want in 2017 that will make your life exciting, joyful, fulfilling.

Or if you’re like most Americans, you’ll continue to repeat the same food, the same exercise or lack of, the same substances of addiction, or behaviors of addiction, or thoughts of addictions and 2017 will be just like every other year in your life. It will truly suck. At least compared to what you could be doing, experiencing, giving, serving and loving.

The coolest thing about 2017 is it’s up to you. And it’s up to me. I have to get out of my own damn way. Make sure I’m getting advice from smart people, follow their advice, and kick ass. How about you?

Or stay a victim? And say that you’d love to have an exciting life but you don’t have the money? Or the body? The love? The faith? The dedication? The perseverance?

All the above are statements that victims love to live in.

What about you? Are you one of those people who say “David, the reason I drink every day is because I’ve gone through hell in my life. The reason I’m overweight David is my genetics. Which is absolute bullshit if you want the honest truth. The reason I don’t have a love relationship I want David is because men are all dogs, or women are all only after one thing, my money.”

If this is too “in your face” that could be the sign of a victim. If this seems to be calling you out, and you don’t like it, that is awesome! The greatest teachers in my life happen to be ones they got in my face, and my gut, and made me think. Made me work. Made me kick my own ass. Because no one else is going to do it for me.

I’ve gone through divorce twice. Addiction recovery twice. Bankruptcy. Foreclosure. Incredible health scares. I’ve had who I consider my best friends betray me. Several of them. I’ve had former lovers steal money from me.

But that is not going to have any effect whatsoever on what I do or don’t do in 2017. Unless I choose to fall back into victim hood and blame all of these people for the fact that I’ve been treated poorly, hence don’t have to do what it takes to be successful.

And guess what? There’s not one damn freaking person in this world that is powerful enough to keep me stuck in the past.

How about you? Are you going to join me? Are you going to invest time and money and effort into your growth? Your career? Your body? Your relationships? Your attitude?

Because if you do… 2017 will be the year of you! Amazing! Powerful! Fulfilling! Joyful!

But if you’re like most Americans, you’ll go back into blaming other people for the fact that you are not living the life that you really truly want.

The choice is yours. The choice is mine. Jump on the bandwagon with me. Make a decision that you’re willing to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes to create the money, body, love life, relationship with God or achieve any other goal that you want.

It takes a hell of a lot of dedication and work, perseverance and effort, to create the life that will thrill you.

I want everything. I will get everything I want. I want you to have the same attitude, the same mindset. If I can help you at all gosh darn it, let me know when and I will.

I’m here to serve. To be a lifter of spirits. And to have a hell of a great time. 2017 is my year. I want you to have the same attitude.

Love, David

( IF YOU’RE SERIOUS ABOUT CHANGING YOUR LIFE. YOUR MONEY. LOVE LIFE. ATTITUDE. CAREER. BODY. TO RELEASE AN ADDICTION. OR PROCRASTINATION. I WANT TO WORK WITH YOU 1 ON 1 AND RIGHT NOW WE ARE OFFERING ALL OF OUR FRIENDS HERE 20% OFF OF ANY 8 OR 10 WEEK PROGRAM WITH ME.

CONTACT US VIA OUR WEBSITE http://www.davidessel.com OR TEXT THE OFFICE 941.266.7676. I’M READY. ARE YOU?)

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Why?

NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS NEVER WORK! THIS DOES.

NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS NEVER WORK! THIS DOES.

“New Year Resolutions are really a waste of time.” Most people, by the end of February, will have forgotten all about the multitude of changes they say they will do in the New Year.

However, in this video is the key to making 2017 YOUR YEAR!

About David Essel, M.S.

“David Essel’s destiny is to help you become more alive in every area of your life.” ~ Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

David Essel, Positive Thinking Will NEVER Change Your Life… But This Book Will, motivational speaker, coaching and mentoring career counselor, confidence, how to be confident, relationship questions, best motivational speakers, career path, healthy relationships, best way to lose weight, self confidence, money advice, addict, relationships, career assessment, life advice.

David Essel, M.S., for 30 years, has been considered one of the leading experts in the field of personal growth.

He is a #1 Best Selling Author of 9 books, a TV/Radio Host, Master Business, Relationship &

Success Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Addiction Recovery Coach and an All Faiths Minister.

His newest #1 Best selling book is : “Positive Thinking Will NEVER Change Your Life… BUT THIS BOOK WILL! The Myth of Positive Thinking, THE REALITY OF SUCCESS”

Master Business, Relationship, and Success Coach, TV/Radio Host, Author of 9 Books, Inspirational Speaker

David began his career in the health and fitness industry and quickly was named “Mr. Motivation” and “The #1 Life Coach in the USA.” by Lifetime Television and “The Master of Motivation” by American Fitness magazine.

He parlayed this worldwide reputation into the world of athletes and athletics after getting his Master’s Degree in Fitness Management, where his emphasis on sport psychology led him to work as the “Mental Success Counselor” for basketball and tennis players from around the USA.

In 1990, a chance encounter with an athletic client who desired a life free of resentments against her former husband, led him deeply into the world of relationship work, with both singles and couples.

That same year he became one of the first nationally recognized Master Life Coaches in the USA, as his work was featured weekly on national radio and television shows. In 1996 David created Life Coach Universe, a Life Coach Certification organization that has certified individuals wanting to make a difference in this world from across the USA, Spain, Bermuda, and the Cayman Islands.

For 25 years, David’s nationally syndicated radio talk show, ” David Essel Alive!” has been heard via Westwood One , XM Satellite Radio and Premiere Radio/ Clear Channel Communications on iHeart Radio. David now hosts 2 nationally syndicated radio shows heard every Saturday morning and evening.

His national work as a motivational segment reporter and host in television began in 1988 with WWOR-TV, then Fox TV’s “Good Day New York” as well as Lifetime Television’s “The Image Workshop”, and the popular Fox TV show “The Morning Blend”.

David has helped thousands of people from around the world achieve their greatest goals in every area of life. From doubling and even tripling their income, to freedom from addictions, preparation for deep love, getting the body they’ve always wanted, releasing long held negative attitudes, overcoming deep depression and anxiety, overcoming emotional and sexual abuse, changing careers or creating dramatic success as business owners, public speaking, as well as helping couples recover from affairs and creating a deep personal connection with God or one’s higher power. David is a renowned expert in the field of co-dependency, where he has helped thousands of people from around the world shatter the “largest addiction known to man.”

There are no topics or circumstances David has not encountered, and helped people overcome, over the past 30 years.

His mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and personal life.

Learn more about David and what he does right here http://davidessel.com/

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ALCOHOLISM…HANGOVER? COULD WE STILL BE “SOCIAL DRINKERS”?

Hangover? We have just left the world of social drinking.

Alcoholism…

For more than 20 years, I was a highly functioning alcoholic. A serious alcoholic, but highly functioning.

Even though I helped other people get sober and, traveled the world as an international speaker, was on national radio and TV and was writing books… there is no doubt that I was an alcoholic.

If you find yourself one day a week one day a month one day every six months waking up with a hangover we have to tell the truth…A hangover is the result of consuming more alcohol than your body can possibly handle. Alcohol is a poison. In small amounts it’s not detrimental, but we’re talking like one drink per day…for women. For men? No more than two drinks per day.

And even though those are guidelines, there are some women and men that if they have one or two drinks they wake up the next day feeling fatigued. Not themselves.

Others like myself, when I was at the height of my drinking, I could drink easily a bottle to two bottles of wine a night, wake up in the morning shake it off, or so I thought I was, and work really hard for 10 or 12 hours every day.

But I was fooling myself. I was in complete denial. I was justifying and rationalizing my addiction. Do you do the same thing?

For me, being a very successful businessman, meant drinking with business associates. It meant going out to bars to seal deals. It meant going to parties after I just got off stage to fit in with everyone else.

About 33% of Americans struggle with alcohol. Many struggle in silence. They become isolated drinkers. Others struggle in public. They are involved in society, looking for any opportunity as an excuse to drink with others.

Some of you who read this post will be pissed off. Why is David Essel writing about alcoholism, and saying that I might be an alcoholic just because I had a hangover on New Year’s Day?

Very few people who have hangovers only have them once a year. So we get really good with denial. Really good with justifying the amount we drink and what we drink.

I have helped thousands of men and women get sober, some who were bartenders or waiters and waitresses…and they went back to work in the environment where alcohol flows freely every day.

The number one step that we have to take is to get out of denial. And that’s a big damn step to take. No one wants to be without alcohol, if you use it as a social lubricant, as a way to relax, as a way to go to sleep, as a way to deal with boredom, or anger, or insecurity.

I used to use alcohol for every reason imaginable to man. Every statement in the above paragraph, was open territory for me to have that first glass of wine. As the years moved on I loved to drink in solitude. After my very last counseling and coaching session at 8 PM, I would walk in the door and immediately open that first bottle of wine. I deserved it. I work hard. I make a lot of money, I should be able to do whatever the hell I want.

Great attitude right? Total denial.

Let me repeat this because for many of us it sucks to hear it, even though it’s true. Whenever we wake up feeling tired, or with a hangover after night of drinking, we are no longer a social drinker. We are either in the stages of dependency or alcoholism.

Whether you are dependent upon alcohol or a full blown alcoholic, which has nothing to do with how much money you make, how many kids you have, how long you been married, or what your astrological sign is… If you need alcohol to relax or to deal with emotions in life you are an alcoholic.

The great news? If people like myself can recover and be totally recovered from alcohol you can as well.

I don’t believe in the statement that once you’re in alcoholic you’re an alcoholic for life. What a bunch of crap. Oh my god there’s so many statements from the 40s 50s and 60s that people still spout over and over and over again that have no validity. If you want to fully recover from alcohol you can. You’re not an alcoholic for life. Drop that crap right outside your door and kick it to the curb.

On the other hand, if you’re tired of being tired, or tired of getting into arguments with your partner, or tired of having to have a drink before you go to the party or out to dinner. Or if you’re tired in general, and you don’t make it to the gym, maybe you’ve gained weight, maybe you’re impatient, contact me.

I don’t judge anyone. My work in this world is to help people to reach their highest potential in life. For me and millions of other people like me, musicians, rock stars, actresses, actors, sports stars, and every day people sobriety is not only possible it’s freaking amazing!

There is no better time than right now to get sober. Make 2017 the Year of Sobriety. Your attitude will improve. Your health will improve. Believe it or not your sleep will improve. Your relationships will improve. Your confidence will improve. Your self-esteem will improve. You will begin to become the very best version of yourself that you ever imagined possible.

I know it because I’m living proof myself as well as with 1000 other people that I’ve helped get sober. Some of whom you can even read their short stories on my website.

Don’t delay. Don’t wait. Do it for yourself, your family, your friends, your career, your health, relationships.

You are worth it. Prove it.

Love David

If you want help, text my office at 941.266.7676 or visit my website and read about the programs we have. Sobriety is a gift that you give yourself. You are worth it.

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PERSONAL POWER IN 2017. DO YOU HAVE IT?

Personal Power in 2017. Do You Have It?

When I think about the new year approaching, quickly approaching, I know for sure that people who have a high level of personal power are going to rock through the new year achieving any and all goals that they are willing to put the time, effort and money into that they truly want in their life.

These people… Don’t have time to be judging, ridiculing, or putting others down. They don’t have time for gossip. They don’t waste time on reality television shows that focus on the ridiculous nature of life.

No, these are people with personal power. They realize time is precious. Days turn into weeks, months and years in the flash of an eye. They will never fall into the lingo of victimhood.

“The reason it’s so hard for me to lose weight is my genetics… It’s because of the new administration that my income is suffering… The reason I don’t have the love of my life is because all men are dogs… I wasn’t raised with a silver spoon in my mouth so I’ll never have the money that I truly desire.”

The above statements are those repeated by people with minimal if any personal power. They will justify, defend, and explain away their life as victims… And they will never see how their mindset and their words and their lack of positive actions will keep them stuck right where they are from now until the day they die.

People with personal power act in the opposite direction. They ask for help. They join groups and organizations to network, and to find like-minded people who are done with excuses, and truly want to accept and appreciate the abundance that life has to offer… And are willing to work their tails off to get it.

The great news about people and personal power is that after they spend a year or so working really hard on their bodies, their money, their relationships or more… the effort just becomes who they are. In other words getting up at 6 AM to be at the gym at seven in the beginning is hard work. But after a year of doing that it just becomes who we are. It’s not hard at all anymore.

I was on a radio show the other day and the host was talking about his love of the martial arts. And how in the last four years he had quickly ascended the ladder to become a high-level black belt in his chosen martial arts field, which dismayed his family and friends around him.
He shared with me that individuals would ask him on a weekly basis how he could get up so early in the morning to go into a gym and to sweat when he could be effortlessly catching a few more hours of sleep before work.

His level of personal power had gone through the roof. He shared with me that he wasn’t always like this. But once he started to change his life for the better, and started to do the uncomfortable steps of getting up early to get to the gym, it was no longer an effort anymore. His level of confidence went through the roof. His level of self-esteem improved dramatically. He finally fell in love with the person he was, and his discipline now is paying off in the most beautiful ways ever imagined.

I want the same thing to happen to you in 2017. I want you filled with personal power. If you haven’t picked up chapter 1 of our number one best-selling book for free on positive thinking and the reality of success, go right now to our website and grab that chapter for free. Simply visit www.talkdavid.com right now and you can start to become inspired to make this year your year.

If I can help you personally, one on one, as your counselor and or life coach don’t hesitate to email me as well. I have several coaches that I work with every week and I have for years, and without them… I know I wouldn’t be at the level of success that I am today.

Wishing you the most amazing year ever.
Love David

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