SPIRITUAL FALLACY: IF GOD WANTS ME SOBER, WEALTHY OR MORE, HE WILL DO THAT FOR ME.

SPIRITUAL FALLACY: IF GOD WANTS ME SOBER, WEALTHY OR MORE,
HE WILL DO THAT FOR ME.

There are so many fallacies in the world of spirituality and personal growth.

Here’s one that is absolutely an excuse to NOT change.

“If God wants me sober, or wealthy, or deeply in love, he will find a way to give me those gifts.”

Insanity. Craziness. A great example of our desire to get out of any work IN life to accomplish our goals.

A number of years ago I was working with a woman who truly needed to become sober. Her life was spinning out of control. No one around her could tell the intense pain she was in, but it was evident in her low self-esteem, and the fact that she had begun isolating herself from people and activities in life.

After working together for about six months, she came in one day saying that she had worked with a spiritual teacher over the weekend that told her “if God wanted you sober, you will become sober. Drop any shame and guilt around your drinking, because he’s in control. Until he tells you to change, just continue on your path of drinking but without the shame and guilt.”

I could not believe what I was hearing! What insanity! A spiritual teacher, was telling my client to continue drinking… Even though her life was totally out of control. Of course it goes hand-in-hand with our desire these days to be living in instant gratification. Why do any work? If God wants me to change I will change, and if he doesn’t want me to change he is giving me the OK to stay where I am.

Insanity. That must end.

I continued working with this woman, but it took about two weeks for her to believe that this message the spiritual teacher told her, was absolute nonsense. Crap. Another example of the disgusting spiritual quotes that we all fall victim to sometime.

If you want a big goal, you’ve got to put in big effort. Relying on God to do all the work is really just simple crazy making.

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10 Reasons Why You Should Not Be Dating and Should Remain Being Single

For many people being single for any length of time is a fate worse than death.

They feel “less than”. Outcasts. Miserable.

But hold on! One of the reasons our divorce rate is over 50% is because people jump too soon into relationships and marriage. Before they are truly ready.

Below are David Essel’s “Top 10 reasons why you should stay single”, until you’ve been able to work through these issues.

1) “If you can’t handle me at my worst, YOU DO NOT DESERVE ME AT MY BEST.” People who say this are basically saying, “I am a basket case in love, and I want to do whatever I desire…and your role is to just take it.” Entitlement, at it’s worst. Stay single until you remove this nonsense from your belief systems.”

2) Anger at past lover…”If you’re still angry at a past love, who cheated, or dumped you, do not date until you have resolved this. It will come out at your next lovers as distrust, resentments etc. Clean up your past first. ”

3) Out of long term relationship or marriage less than 12 months. ” Take time to heal. Take time to look at your role in the failure of the relationship before you date. ”

4) Looking for your better half? “Do not date if you are looking for your better half, or someone to complete you. Learn how to be enough, as you are.”

5) Believe men are all dogs or women are self centered. “Past negative beliefs will destroy any future love.”

6) Want to date because your tired of being alone. “This is huge! Get comfortable entertaining yourself, or the next person will surely let you down…again.”

7) Tired of raising kids by yourself. “I hear this in my counseling/coaching practice every week. When you are looking for help like this, hire a nanny.”

8) Want someone to take care of your financial stress. “99% of relationships like this end in chaos and drama, resentments on both sides.”

9) Because your friends and family say you are the greatest catch in the world. “This does not mean you are ready to date! Clear up your past first.”

10) All of your friends are in relationships. “This screams insecurity, a terrible reason to date.”

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WHY DO I HAVE NEGATIVE BELIEFS?

One of the greatest challenges that people face today, when they want to change their lives, is eradicating negative comments and beliefs from other individuals that they have accepted as true.

David Essel throughout his #1 best selling book “Positive thinking will never change your life… But this book will!”, explains that the problem isn’t that the person believes these negative comments on the conscious level… But they’ve been embedded in the subconscious level for years,so we just act out what we have heard, even though it may not necessarily be true at all.

In his book David tells the story of a young woman, whose mom had berated her for years about her lack of understanding math.

Her mother had convinced her that she was stupid. That she would never learn math. That she would never be good with money. And so with these comments now cemented in this young girls subconscious mind, she acted them out for the rest of her life.

Even though at the age of 20, without a high school education because she dropped out due to her mothers comments that she will always be stupid, she secured an entrepreneurial position and earned $150,000 in her first year alone!

Unfortunately, when she started making that kind of money her mother came back into her life telling her that she was stupid still with math, that she will blow all her money, and of course the young girl did exactly that.

Fast forward 20 years. The girls mother is still telling her she’ll never be good with money, and this young girl now turned almost middle age has manifested financial stress her entire life. Because of her fear of rocking the boat and leaving her mother once and for all, she continues to have her in her life, and her mother continues to self sabotage her daughters existence.

The answer? As David states so clearly in the book, there are times in life that we need to move away from those negative yet influential people, who have planted these negative beliefs that are not necessarily true in our brains.

It might mean that you have to totally cut off that relationship. Or it could mean that you just greatly diminish the time that you speak to those individuals. But as we all know, some of the greatest steps to success are the most difficult ones. And that’s OK.

Then let’s look at the other side. The power of someone’s positive comments. David goes on to share a personal story in his book about how he was never very good at school, and especially spelling. With an older sister who is incredibly intelligent, and who always got A’s in her classes, he never felt that he lived up to family expectations. So he became an athlete, and a damn good one. But his parents and his teachers knew that he had to do better in school if wanted a successful career outside of athletics.

In third grade David met a mentor and teacher Sister Vidette. She took him under her wings. She told him he could become a great speller, that he could raise his grades if he worked really hard. At first he didn’t believe her. But she was relentless. Meetings with his parents became a regular event. Sister told David and his parents that she saw brilliance in him.

Through incredible hard work, and a persistent teacher and parents who believed in David, he became an exceptional speller. Little did he know at that time that later on in life her comments would be the creation of a career as an author. While his athletic life ended after two years of playing basketball at Syracuse University, his excellence in spelling would lead him to become incredibly successful in life.

David’s work in the subconscious mind, has helped millions of people to move past those negative comments of family, friends, coaches and even teachers… Allowing them to shake the past once and for ever, and to plant positive beliefs where at one time there were only negative ones.

As a society, many of us are told we will never be enough. We will never be good enough. David’s work is to reverse that trend, and give adults as well as young adults the chance to reverse the negative beliefs implanted by others… So they can be free, successful and happy in life. This is possible for everyone, but a key to change is understanding that you cannot cover up a negative belief with a positive one……you actually have to do the work, day after day, to eradicate all limitations.

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HUMILITY: DEEPAK CHOPRA AND FLOYD LITTLE

HUMILITY: DEEPAK CHOPRA AND FLOYD LITTLE

Humility is a sign of greatness. How humble are you?

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Huge Goal For 2017?… Read this.

Huge Goal For 2017?… Read this.
Why?
It’s 1986. I’m speaking at a large fitness conference, in a round table of other business and fitness experts. The audience is totally tuned in to what each of us are saying… And then one guy who I never met speaks up. His name was Joe Cirulli .

I didn’t know his full story, and was blown away when I found out that here was a guy who was homeless… Living in his car… Who now sitting in front of us as a millionaire in an industry people say you can’t make money. He owns health clubs.

When the presentation was over he actually came to me, and congratulated me on a job well done. I couldn’t believe it. Here he had accomplished all of these great things in life, and I was basically six years into my career and he was telling me I did a good job.

I knew I had to get to know this guy… And within a very short period of time I was asking him for advice… And learning more than I could ever believe. Eventually, I was proud to call Joe one of the greatest mentors I’ve ever had.

I’ll never forget when I asked him one day what the secret to ongoing business success was… And he said “David you’ll never accomplish anything huge on your own… You really need to get involved with mastermind groups, consultants and coaches to make sure that you’re doing everything possible to be successful.”

From that day forward I took his advice and he’s always right on.

How about you? Do you have a huge goal for 2017? Do you have a team of people in place to help you? Consultants? Coaches? Mentors? Mastermind groups?

If you don’t… I can almost guarantee you the goal will not be achieved. We need people to inspire us… Hold our feet to the fire… In other words a hold us accountable.

For most of us, the human brain is not powerful enough to keep us on track. If it was, you and I right now would have every goal we’ve ever intended to have.

But it’s not that easy is it?

To make this year different… You must invest more time more energy and more money into your growth. It’s simple just not easy.

But don’t fool yourself and think that this is going to be the year of you… If you think you’re going to do it on your own. If you could’ve done it on your own you already would’ve done it. Proof, that we need outside help.

If I can help you, I would love to. For 26 years I’ve helped thousands of people as a counselor and a life coach to accomplish the most incredible dreams they ever could’ve imagined in their life.

From losing 120 pounds and keeping it off, to recovering from multiple addictions, helping couples after an affair create deep love, helping individuals who have never owned a house… To get their financial situation in order so they could finally buy their first home ever… And the list goes on and on.

Write down your goals. Then bring someone into your life like myself to hold you accountable. If you’re serious, visit my website or text our office at 941.266.7676

I’m excited for you. 2017 can be the year of you. To accomplish anything you want, or just about anything you want, you’ll need outside help. Commit to you. Commit to you now. You will forever be grateful to yourself… For following the advice given to me 30 years ago by my friend and mentor Joe.

Wishing you the best for 2017. David Essel

2017… Is This Your Year?

Why?

2017… Is this your year?

For many people, 2016 absolutely sucked. For other people it was a massive breakthrough. For the most part, this coming year, 2017, whether it’s sucks or it’s awesome will be up to you and me to decide.

What will you decide? And it won’t be from your thought process. The outcome is never decided by what you think, or you intend to, or you affirm…the decision is only proved true by what you do on a daily basis.

I’m halfway home. Halfway to the end of my life. This year was a fairly big one for me as I turned 60 years old. I plan on living to 120 years of age or older. I have a lot of life left. I have a lot to learn. I’m open to learning. How about you?

2016 was an incredible learning year for me. An adventure. Some incredible success that I’ve never accomplish before in my life, as well as some failures. Some choices I made that didn’t work in the direction I’d hoped.

But I can tell you this. We’re dying. Every day we are closer to death.

Which makes this post incredibly important for you. Are you living? Are you truly living? Is life filled with adventure? Joy? In other words are you taking risks, large risks every week? If not. You’re dying. Right now. In front of your own eyes.

You can change this. Only you can. Your husband or wife can’t. Your parents can’t. Your siblings can’t. Your best friend can’t. Even God can’t. Not because he wouldn’t like to. But because of the concept of free will.

This is where it gets great. You have the free will to do whatever the hell you want in 2017 that will make your life exciting, joyful, fulfilling.

Or if you’re like most Americans, you’ll continue to repeat the same food, the same exercise or lack of, the same substances of addiction, or behaviors of addiction, or thoughts of addictions and 2017 will be just like every other year in your life. It will truly suck. At least compared to what you could be doing, experiencing, giving, serving and loving.

The coolest thing about 2017 is it’s up to you. And it’s up to me. I have to get out of my own damn way. Make sure I’m getting advice from smart people, follow their advice, and kick ass. How about you?

Or stay a victim? And say that you’d love to have an exciting life but you don’t have the money? Or the body? The love? The faith? The dedication? The perseverance?

All the above are statements that victims love to live in.

What about you? Are you one of those people who say “David, the reason I drink every day is because I’ve gone through hell in my life. The reason I’m overweight David is my genetics. Which is absolute bullshit if you want the honest truth. The reason I don’t have a love relationship I want David is because men are all dogs, or women are all only after one thing, my money.”

If this is too “in your face” that could be the sign of a victim. If this seems to be calling you out, and you don’t like it, that is awesome! The greatest teachers in my life happen to be ones they got in my face, and my gut, and made me think. Made me work. Made me kick my own ass. Because no one else is going to do it for me.

I’ve gone through divorce twice. Addiction recovery twice. Bankruptcy. Foreclosure. Incredible health scares. I’ve had who I consider my best friends betray me. Several of them. I’ve had former lovers steal money from me.

But that is not going to have any effect whatsoever on what I do or don’t do in 2017. Unless I choose to fall back into victim hood and blame all of these people for the fact that I’ve been treated poorly, hence don’t have to do what it takes to be successful.

And guess what? There’s not one damn freaking person in this world that is powerful enough to keep me stuck in the past.

How about you? Are you going to join me? Are you going to invest time and money and effort into your growth? Your career? Your body? Your relationships? Your attitude?

Because if you do… 2017 will be the year of you! Amazing! Powerful! Fulfilling! Joyful!

But if you’re like most Americans, you’ll go back into blaming other people for the fact that you are not living the life that you really truly want.

The choice is yours. The choice is mine. Jump on the bandwagon with me. Make a decision that you’re willing to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes to create the money, body, love life, relationship with God or achieve any other goal that you want.

It takes a hell of a lot of dedication and work, perseverance and effort, to create the life that will thrill you.

I want everything. I will get everything I want. I want you to have the same attitude, the same mindset. If I can help you at all gosh darn it, let me know when and I will.

I’m here to serve. To be a lifter of spirits. And to have a hell of a great time. 2017 is my year. I want you to have the same attitude.

Love, David

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Why?

NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS NEVER WORK! THIS DOES.

NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS NEVER WORK! THIS DOES.

“New Year Resolutions are really a waste of time.” Most people, by the end of February, will have forgotten all about the multitude of changes they say they will do in the New Year.

However, in this video is the key to making 2017 YOUR YEAR!

About David Essel, M.S.

“David Essel’s destiny is to help you become more alive in every area of your life.” ~ Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

David Essel, Positive Thinking Will NEVER Change Your Life… But This Book Will, motivational speaker, coaching and mentoring career counselor, confidence, how to be confident, relationship questions, best motivational speakers, career path, healthy relationships, best way to lose weight, self confidence, money advice, addict, relationships, career assessment, life advice.

David Essel, M.S., for 30 years, has been considered one of the leading experts in the field of personal growth.

He is a #1 Best Selling Author of 9 books, a TV/Radio Host, Master Business, Relationship &

Success Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Addiction Recovery Coach and an All Faiths Minister.

His newest #1 Best selling book is : “Positive Thinking Will NEVER Change Your Life… BUT THIS BOOK WILL! The Myth of Positive Thinking, THE REALITY OF SUCCESS”

Master Business, Relationship, and Success Coach, TV/Radio Host, Author of 9 Books, Inspirational Speaker

David began his career in the health and fitness industry and quickly was named “Mr. Motivation” and “The #1 Life Coach in the USA.” by Lifetime Television and “The Master of Motivation” by American Fitness magazine.

He parlayed this worldwide reputation into the world of athletes and athletics after getting his Master’s Degree in Fitness Management, where his emphasis on sport psychology led him to work as the “Mental Success Counselor” for basketball and tennis players from around the USA.

In 1990, a chance encounter with an athletic client who desired a life free of resentments against her former husband, led him deeply into the world of relationship work, with both singles and couples.

That same year he became one of the first nationally recognized Master Life Coaches in the USA, as his work was featured weekly on national radio and television shows. In 1996 David created Life Coach Universe, a Life Coach Certification organization that has certified individuals wanting to make a difference in this world from across the USA, Spain, Bermuda, and the Cayman Islands.

For 25 years, David’s nationally syndicated radio talk show, ” David Essel Alive!” has been heard via Westwood One , XM Satellite Radio and Premiere Radio/ Clear Channel Communications on iHeart Radio. David now hosts 2 nationally syndicated radio shows heard every Saturday morning and evening.

His national work as a motivational segment reporter and host in television began in 1988 with WWOR-TV, then Fox TV’s “Good Day New York” as well as Lifetime Television’s “The Image Workshop”, and the popular Fox TV show “The Morning Blend”.

David has helped thousands of people from around the world achieve their greatest goals in every area of life. From doubling and even tripling their income, to freedom from addictions, preparation for deep love, getting the body they’ve always wanted, releasing long held negative attitudes, overcoming deep depression and anxiety, overcoming emotional and sexual abuse, changing careers or creating dramatic success as business owners, public speaking, as well as helping couples recover from affairs and creating a deep personal connection with God or one’s higher power. David is a renowned expert in the field of co-dependency, where he has helped thousands of people from around the world shatter the “largest addiction known to man.”

There are no topics or circumstances David has not encountered, and helped people overcome, over the past 30 years.

His mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and personal life.

Learn more about David and what he does right here http://davidessel.com/