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Healing Stories: Putting Sexy Back Into Valentine’s Day!

Healing Stories: Putting Sexy Back Into Valentine’s Day!

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and are you going to do the same thing you do every year?

What is it? 12 roses to her office or home?

Or maybe a dinner at a nice restaurant?

It’s time to shake things up… And put the sexy back in Valentine’s Day!

For last 28 years, number one best-selling author, counselor and life coach David Essel has helped millions of people from around the world to shake up their love life. Shake it up in a good way. Maybe it’s time for you to do the same thing.

Here are David‘s 3 key tips to make this Valentine’s Day sexier, hotter… And did we say sexier?

“I know, I know, I know… Valentine’s Day is for lovers. It’s for a sweet little corner table in a restaurant, it’s for a dozen roses.  Oh my Lord, can’t we get more inventive and a little sexier this year for Valentine’s Day?

Here are a few tips that I recommended to many of my clients over the years, to help make this Valentine’s Day stand out from the past.

Number One.What do women really want? Here’s a shocker. This year I asked all of my female clients if they would let me know what their number one choice for a Valentine’s date would be. Was it dinner at a nice restaurant? No. Was it a dozen, two dozen or three dozen roses? No.

So what did they want? They wanted one on one time with their man. They wanted to cuddle. What? Cuddle?

Of course that’s what most guys are thinking… Oh my god not that cuddling stuff. Yep, that cuddling stuff.

So why don’t you break out of the mold this year, and instead of going out and blowing a bunch of money in an expensive restaurant, sorry restaurant owners, why don’t you just make a decision order in. You’re welcome restaurant owners.

That’s right order from a really nice restaurant, have it delivered by a delivery service, tell your wife or girlfriend to get into her sexiest lingerie, and that you are going to serve her her dinner in bed. That’s right dinner in bed. Make this year different.

Number Two. It’s time for a threesome. You read that correctly, it’s time to go way out of your comfort zone and have a threesome with your significant lover. Now, don’t let your mind go in the gutter. I’m not talking about a threesome with another person, I’m talking about a threesome with some really wonderful sex paraphernalia.

Maybe it’s a gorgeous new rabbit vibrator… Or any incredible dildo… Or maybe some really sexy, beautiful perfumed massage oil that will give her the treat of her life…

Or maybe it’s an incredible sexual, sex education DVD to stimulate her mind and body

Let’s get rid of the old boring stuff. Can anyone say feathers on a stick to tickle her into submission? Or what about a light paddle on the behind, to get her juices really flowing this year. That’s right get a threesome baby, with some exterior toys and stimulating products to make this Valentine’s Day unforgettable.

Number Three. Now this one will get both of your juices flowing. A double massage in your house. You better order now. Find a massage therapy center and see if they’ll send 2 massage therapists to your house so that you can both have an incredible hour and a half massage side-by-side without ever having to leave your house.

Pour a glass of champagne for your lover, tell her to go and get into her very comfortable birthday suit LOL, and when they come and set up the portable massage table she will be blown away.

Can you imagine the look on his and or her face? And after that relaxing massage, if the massage therapists are strong enough, ask them to carry you both into your bed where you can make love for the rest of the night.

And the very first thing I’m gonna say as you are reading this article, is you are welcome, yes you can send me gifts for giving you these great ideas to make this Valentine’s Day the sexiest one that maybe you’ve ever had in your life.

Remember, doing the same old thing every year gets old. This year, make it sexier, hotter and more intimate than ever. Your partner will thank you, and me. And I don’t even have to be in the bedroom to be a part of your Valentine’s Day celebration.“

David Essel‘s work is highly endorsed by the late Wayne Dyer, and celebrity Jenny McCarthy says “David Essel is the new leader of the positive thinking movement.“

David’s work is verified as one of the top relationship experts in the world by and psychology today verifies David as one of the top counselors and life coaches in the USA.

David’s 10th book, “focus! Slay your goals“, is now available.

If you would like a free 15 minute phone counseling session with David, send us an email at the website below, mention where you read this article, and we will set up the first session absolutely free at

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Watch this super short video to find out.

And…Happy Valentine’s Day!

About David Essel, M.S.

“David Essel’s destiny is to help you become more alive in every area of your life.” ~ Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

David Essel, Positive Thinking Will NEVER Change Your Life… But This Book Will, motivational speaker, coaching and mentoring career counselor, confidence, how to be confident, relationship questions, best motivational speakers, career path, healthy relationships, best way to lose weight, self confidence, money advice, addict, relationships, career assessment, life advice.

David Essel, M.S., for 30 years, has been considered one of the leading experts in the field of personal growth.

He is a #1 Best Selling Author of 9 books, a TV/Radio Host, Master Business, Relationship &

Success Coach, Inspirational Speaker, Addiction Recovery Coach and an All Faiths Minister.

His newest #1 Best selling book is : “Positive Thinking Will NEVER Change Your Life… BUT THIS BOOK WILL! The Myth of Positive Thinking, THE REALITY OF SUCCESS”

Master Business, Relationship, and Success Coach, TV/Radio Host, Author of 9 Books, Inspirational Speaker

David began his career in the health and fitness industry and quickly was named “Mr. Motivation” and “The #1 Life Coach in the USA.” by Lifetime Television and “The Master of Motivation” by American Fitness magazine.

He parlayed this worldwide reputation into the world of athletes and athletics after getting his Master’s Degree in Fitness Management, where his emphasis on sport psychology led him to work as the “Mental Success Counselor” for basketball and tennis players from around the USA.

In 1990, a chance encounter with an athletic client who desired a life free of resentments against her former husband, led him deeply into the world of relationship work, with both singles and couples.

That same year he became one of the first nationally recognized Master Life Coaches in the USA, as his work was featured weekly on national radio and television shows. In 1996 David created Life Coach Universe, a Life Coach Certification organization that has certified individuals wanting to make a difference in this world from across the USA, Spain, Bermuda, and the Cayman Islands.

For 25 years, David’s nationally syndicated radio talk show, ” David Essel Alive!” has been heard via Westwood One , XM Satellite Radio and Premiere Radio/ Clear Channel Communications on iHeart Radio. David now hosts 2 nationally syndicated radio shows heard every Saturday morning and evening.

His national work as a motivational segment reporter and host in television began in 1988 with WWOR-TV, then Fox TV’s “Good Day New York” as well as Lifetime Television’s “The Image Workshop”, and the popular Fox TV show “The Morning Blend”.

David has helped thousands of people from around the world achieve their greatest goals in every area of life. From doubling and even tripling their income, to freedom from addictions, preparation for deep love, getting the body they’ve always wanted, releasing long held negative attitudes, overcoming deep depression and anxiety, overcoming emotional and sexual abuse, changing careers or creating dramatic success as business owners, public speaking, as well as helping couples recover from affairs and creating a deep personal connection with God or one’s higher power. David is a renowned expert in the field of co-dependency, where he has helped thousands of people from around the world shatter the “largest addiction known to man.”

There are no topics or circumstances David has not encountered, and helped people overcome, over the past 30 years.

His mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and personal life.

Learn more about David and what he does right here