Marriage and Relationship Recovery

Marriage and Relationship Recovery

“David’s book, “Love and Relationship Secrets That Everyone Needs to Know…“ is the new Bible on marriage and relationship recovery.“

- TJ Tauriello, celebrity Publicist





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Are you looking to save your current relationship? Learn how to move on from your last one? Desire help through divorce process? Or, are you single, desiring deep love? Challenged by codependency? Let David lead the way to peace in love.

“80% of marriages are deeply challenged in America right now.”
- American Psychological Association

Ready for Love?

  • Are you tired of accepting love relationships that seem simply mediocre at best? 
  • Would you like to take your current relationship to a whole new level?
  • Are you through attracting partners that treat you poorly, or are unavailable emotionally or physically?
  • Is it time to really create deep, passionate love, yes the type that “curls your toes” and at the same time with a partner who is your best friend?
  • Would you like to actually learn how to love yourself more deeply right now?
  • Work with Master Life and Relationship Coach, David Essel, to effectively shatter your old beliefs and behaviors about love and lead you to the REAL lasting love that exists for anyone who wants to learn the secrets that he has to share.

Ready to save your current marriage or relationship?


The last three years have put so many of our relationships in constant turmoil, chaos and drama.


This program, “marriage and relationship recovery“, was created after we had seen , in our clinical practice, an immense increase of couples requesting help during these outrageously challenging times.


When the pandemic hit, many businesses struggled greatly while others grew out of control! And if you’re struggling deeply at work, either as an owner or staff member, the odds are you’re going to be bringing those struggles home as well.


But stress does not have any boundaries. If your business exploded, there’s always challenges when businesses grow quickly, and those challenges may also be brought home to our relationship with our partner and our children.


In this program, whether you’re married or in a relationship, we will:


Number one. Find the origin of the chaos and dysfunction. When did it begin? How did it begin?


Number two. Of the different challenges in your relationship, we will help you figure out which one is the priority, and begin immediately working on that one challenge.


Number three. Communicating our feelings, our thoughts, our wishes, our desires with a partner when we’re struggling is extremely difficult! We will teach you the art of emotional regulation, we will teach you the art of disengagement, we have over 100 tools to help couples that are struggling learn how to come back together.


Number four. If only one individual in a couple does the work, they can dramatically increase the odds of saving that relationship! Too many times couples will say “well my wife doesn’t want to do the counseling or my husband doesn’t want to or my boyfriend or girlfriend doesn’t want to,” so we sit on the fence waiting for some miracle to happen.


If one person comes into this program, it can,  overtime, radically change the dynamics of your relationship.


Number five. We will help you through a variety of different activities, learn how to safely come back together when trust has been broken, addiction has come into play, or a lack of time together is creating too much separation in your relationship.


Number six. Alcohol. According to the American psychological Association, you will also see the quote above, “80% of marriages in this country are challenged more now than they’ve ever been in the past.“


Many of the executives that I have been working with and currently are working with, have found that there was a slow increase in alcohol intake because of the stress over the last three years, undermining the sanctity of their relationship.


Some of my clients decide to go into the world of sobriety to save their relationship or marriage, others decide to cut back dramatically.


We will help you in this decision, and assist you in moving forward to strengthen and or even to save your current relationship.


Number seven. If arguments are an ongoing issue, we also have tools like cognitive behavioral therapy, and desensitization therapy in order for you to begin to release the resentments.


At the same same time, we will teach you how to talk about difficult experiences in your relationship without getting out of control emotionally. It’s an art, that we have been teaching for a very very long time.


Number eight. Intimacy exercises to reclaim our love. There are many intimacy exercises that we can teach you, that have nothing to do with sex, in order to bridge the gap emotionally between you and your partner.


Feeling safe. Feeling listened to. Feeling heard. Feeling that your partner does care are some of the most important attributes that we can help you learn during this program.


Number nine. A re-commitment to your relationship. As we continue to move through this program, we will reach a point where most couples if they choose to stay together, will want to do a re-commitment to each other, which is one of the most beautiful exercises you could ever do. 


It doesn’t matter if you’ve been married for three months or 30 years, many times a recommitment to your partner will open up avenues for discussion, deeper intimacy and of course an explosion in the love between you both.


I have been blessed over the last 43 years, to help so many couples who thought their relationship or their marriage was doomed! Sometimes, quite honestly, there are relationships that should take a break from each other, and if that is the case we have a program for that as well.


“Living apart while trying to stay together“, is a program that we have been interviewed about on many different radio shows, podcasts and even television shows over the last four years.


You will work with me one on one, one day a week for an hour via zoom, Skype or phone… And then you’ll have access to me five days a week via text messaging from 9 AM until 5 PM Eastern standard time.


We believe this five day a week accountability portion of this program is one of the things that sets us apart from any other relationship or marriage recovery program in the USA!


It is a high form of accountability, to have the ability to reach out to me in between our one hour sessions.


There is no better time than today, to make the right move and see if you can’t turn a tumultuous relationship or marriage around.


We have seen couples that many individuals said should not be together, they should not even try to save the relationship, but at the end of our program everything has changed for the better!


If this is the path for you, I am ready to help you from anywhere in the world starting today!

Love, David


“We came to David right after the pandemic started because we saw that we were drifting apart.


Having children at home during the day when they normally were at school, trying to help them as they went through the process of missing their friends, while at the same time each of us running our own entrepreneurial businesses out of the home, added so much stress that we considered strongly ending our marriage.


But, that all changed when we joined David’s program. Within three months, the way we spoke to each other, the tone of our voice, the words we used had totally changed! Our use of substances to escape reality and try to escape stress, was also compounding the issue.


David’s work is exceptional. Unique. He cares more than you might even know. He worked so hard with us, he never gave up on us, even when we would come and work with him during our sessions, feeling that maybe the marriage wasn’t worth saving. 


He allowed us to vent our frustrations, but then always had a tool or two in his work that ended up helping us immensely. We are indebted to David for his patience , and maybe even more importantly, the creative way he designed this program to work with any type of couple whatsoever.


Find out for yourself, we know you will be more than pleased with his one on one approach to relationship recovery.”


Peter and Kathy M.

Entrepreneurs

“After  year two of the pandemic, I could see that our marriage was crumbling. My husband, and he admits this as well, was not giving me the time of day with the stress I was feeling at work. He was talking over me constantly. I had become extremely codependent, afraid to rock the boat and afraid to tell him what I really felt.


Within a month of working with David, he began seeing these dramatic changes in my approach to him, and he wanted to have the same thing happen to him.


My friends at first thought I was wasting money trying to save our marriage, but I wanted to give it one more shot. After being married for almost 40 years, I knew I had a role, because I was not good at expressing my feelings and or emotions.


And my husband admitted, he was not good at expressing how he really felt either. After six months of working with David, I came home one day to rose petals on the floor, from the front door all the way to our bedroom!


My husband was never the romantic type! On the bed there was rose petals in the shape of a heart, and he even admitted if he hadn’t gone through the program with David, there’s no way in the world he would’ve learned how to become more communicative , More sensitive to my needs, and opening his mind that he could be a romantic partner if he just gave it a shot.


I found by working with David an immense confidence in expressing my feelings, expressing my thoughts in a non-threatening way to my husband, which I opened up the doorway to an incredible reunion of our relationship.


David is the man. We heard that from several of our friends, but after going through his program we can confirm it! You’ll never be disappointed with his work”


Lisa and Paul

Now married 41 years, West Virginia

Need additional help?

  • Are you going through a divorce and need guidance? Check out our Divorce Guidance course.
  • Co-dependency keeps us entwined and returning to unhealthy love relationships, friendships and even family members. Check out our Co-Dependency course.

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DAVID ESSEL IS A COUNSELOR, MASTER LIFE, RELATIONSHIP AND BUSINESS COACH

Counseling, Life and Business Coaching sessions are done one-on-one with David either by telephone or in person. Approximately 80% of his one-on-one counseling and coaching sessions have been done via the phone since 1992. For coaching sessions in person, David has offices in Ft. Myers and Naples, Florida. David will personally “coach” you to greater levels of success. His vast personal and business experiences and knowledge of additional resources help you to accomplish the most important goals of your life. David is compassionate, confidential, energizing and committed to helping you succeed.


What type of people does David coach?
Since 1992 David has counseled and coached people from all walks of life: physicians, housewives, teachers, high school and college students, single moms and dads, couples, musicians, actors, ministers, business owners, real estate agents, psychotherapists and mental health counselors, financial planners, athletes, and more.


DAVID ESSEL’S personal mission is to inspire individuals to effortlessly recognize their own unique gifts and to become more alive, successful and happy in every area of their lives.

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