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Men Taking the Lead in Love

Now than ever before men are taking the lead in love and their intimate relationships.


For years, so many people have said that the only way an intimate relationship is going to get more intimate as if the woman takes the lead.

The times are changing.


Just recently, number one best-selling author, counselor David Essel was on the largest relationship radio talkshow in Montreal, and he was blown away by the responses that happened after the show in regards to men, intimacy, sexuality, and more.


Below, David shares this exciting story of the changing times with men taking the lead in love.


“One of my favorite radio shows in the world is called “Passion”, hosted by Dr. Laurie Betito in Montreal, Canada.


Every several months, Dr. Laurie has me on her radio show to talk about intimacy, sexuality, relationships, addiction, and more.


Recently, she invited me back to the show to talk about my brand new book  “50+ Flavors of Erotic Love… Leaving the vanilla world for ecstasy!“, And I was totally shocked by the involvement of men through her radio show in the world of intimacy.


During the show, as we had planned before it, Dr. Laurie continued to mention to her listeners that our brand new book would be available for them for free in a PDF version, and all they had to do was send an email to our website www.talkdavid.com


Within 24 hours, 70%, let me repeat that 70% of the people asking for a copy of our brand new book on intimacy were men!


I was shocked!


When we normally do this with radio shows, a promotion where we give away something on intimacy, it’s normally responded to by 70% of women and 30% of men.


But today’s world is different. Men are taking the lead in love and their intimate relationships, unlike years ago when they expected women should be the leaders in love.


In other words, men were very comfortable making money, going to work, bringing it home, but they expected a woman to be in charge in the bedroom in one way or another.


Times are changing, quite quickly as a matter of fact.


The fact that 70% of people responding for a brand new book on erotic love were men, is telling us what we’ve wanted to hear all along: that men are less afraid of talking about intimacy… That men are becoming more comfortable sharing not only their intimate desires but talking to their partner, about their partner’s intimate desires as well.


In previous appearances on Dr. Laurie’s show, when we would give away one of our online courses for free, or some other giveaway we would usually have an incredibly large percentage of her female listeners who would respond to our offers.


And as you read the book, you’ll see that there are even stories of my clients in the book, CPAs, attorneys, and even doctors who are men who are starting to lead the way in erotic lovemaking.


It’s no longer up to the women to bring erotic intimacy into our lives… Men are now taking charge as well.


As it should be.“


David’s work is highly endorsed by individuals like the late Wayne Dyer, and celebrity Jenny Mccarthy says “David Essel is the new leader of the positive thinking movement.“


His work as a counselor and minister has been verified by organizations like Psychology Today, and marriage.com has also verified David as one of the top counselors and relationship experts in the world.



To get a copy of David‘s new book, or to work with him one on one on your intimate life from anywhere in the world via Skype, visit www.DavidEssel.com



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