Valentine's Day Tips for Men
Hey guys! Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and here are some tips to help men make this a very special night.
I know, I know… When it comes to planning romantic evenings, weekend getaways, or even vacations many men seem to be in the dark.
So what should I do? What would she like? Where do I begin? Where do I end?
For over 40 years, I’ve been in the world of personal growth as a counselor, author and master life coach, helping both men and women with their romantic lives, their intimate lives, to make sure they’re doing everything possible to keep their passion on fire!
Valentine’s Day is one of those days that is so important to many women, and that men have to be willing to pick up their game if they want to see their relationship continue to blossom year after year.
So here are some very simple tips for men to follow to let their partner know that this Valentine’s Day… will be one they’ll never forget:
Number One. Send roses to her even if she’s working out of her home! And here’s something I’m going to tell you to start to light the fire, send them before Valentine’s Day…… And why?
Because she would never expect it. It will surprise her. You could send them a week ahead with a note that says “pre-Valentine’s Day love! I love you so much honey, I wanted you to know before Valentine’s Day that you’re my Valentine’s… Every day of the year.”
Sound sappy? So what… Do it anyway LOL, many women would love the attention.
Number Two. Leave her a note, with multiple options that she can choose from when it comes to celebrating this Valentine’s Day.
So many of my female clients have told me “David I hate it when my husband, or my boyfriend, has to ask me every year what I want to do for Valentine’s Day… It makes it seem like I’m always making the decision when I really wish that he would just risk for once take it on his own and do it for the both of us.“
For men that are really in touch and aware of what turns their girl or their woman or their wife on, it’s a no-brainer of what you’re going to do.
You know her so well you know exactly the type of flowers, the type of meal, the type of dessert, and the type of lovemaking that she would really enjoy with you on this special day.
But if you’re not that tuned in don’t worry I’m here to help you.
Come up with a list of options, in writing, and leave it for her on the bed in the morning at least a few days before Valentine’s Day so she has time to think and then make her choices:
Honey here is four options I’d like you to choose from so that I can worship you as the woman I love on Valentine’s Day.
- Would you like a full body massage with hot oil?
- Would you like me to make dinner and to bring it into bed so that we can feed each other in a romantic way and then make love?
- Would you like me to shop online or at one of the intimate stores in town, and pick out some new lingerie for you or maybe even a sexual toy that we’ve talked about but I’ve never used before?
- Or, would you like me to draw you a hot bath, a hot bubble bath so you can fully relax before we have dinner and make love that night?
So this year, instead of asking her what she wants to do, you’re going to give her multiple options and if the options above don’t work for you that’s not a problem at all, sit down, take a big breath, and write out other options that you know your lover would really enjoy.
There are so many different things that you can do to turn your partner on, to show them how much you love them, and the above are just a few tips to get you started, to get you thinking, in order to make this Valentine’s Day so much richer, so much more intimate than maybe those in the past.
And don’t let the pandemic stop you in your tracks!
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Don’t wait, start planning today!“
David Essel‘s work is highly endorsed by individuals like the late Wayne Dyer, and celebrity Jenny McCarthy says “David Essel is the new leader of the positive thinking movement.“
His work as a counselor and minister has been verified by organization such as “Psychology Today“, and marriage.com, has verified David as one of the top relationship counselors and experts in the world.
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