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Divorce Attorney to Erotic Monogamy?

“We were on our way to divorce, had even visited a divorce attorney a few weeks before, and then we ran into this unique marriage-saving program.“


Imagine the feelings that that must’ve been going through the husband and wife’s mind from the quote above.


They had made up their mind they were divorcing, had visited with a divorce attorney, and just before signing papers heard about a unique program that had helped many couples stay together.


At first, they were skeptical… As anyone should be! But wait to you hear what happens next.


For the past 30 years, number one best selling author, counselor, minister David Essel has been helping to save marriages, to help turn around so many relationships that we’re going down the drain.


Below, David shares one story from several of his clients that might just change your mind, as it changed theirs.


”For over 30 years as a counselor, minister, I cannot even count how many couples I’ve worked with that we’re on the verge of divorce… That were saved… Now we don’t save 100% of couples on the verge of divorce, simply because some people should divorce.


If there’s ongoing addiction, emotional abuse, physical abuse these will be reasons, justifiable reasons to divorce.


But so many of the couples that I’ve worked with, their current frustration with their partner was based on resentments from the past they’ve never cleared up… Expectations that they’ve never shared … Desires and interests even in the bedroom that they’ve never talked about.


So in 1997 I started a very unique program for couples, focused on erotic love.


The type of love that gets your heart pumping fast, your body responding in wild ways, and regardless of how long you’ve been married, once you tap into this erotic side of life, monogamy is easy.


After using this program with so many people I decided to put it in our brand new top-selling book, “50+ Flavors of Erotic Love… Leaving the vanilla world for ecstasy!“, To reach more people than I ever could help one on one.


And the results? Fantastic.


Here’s a quote directly from the book, from a couple that I worked with who were sure their marriage was on the way to Divorce. But instead of divorcing each other, they learned how to communicate more openly regarding their intimate needs as well as dropping resentments from the past.


“The first time my husband restrained me, and used a feather all over my body, he wouldn’t stop gently brushing certain areas of my body that are incredibly sensitive. I was going wild in ecstasy! Just a few weeks before, we had gone to visit a divorce attorney, and here we are now following David‘s program and we could feel the emotional connection growing. We still have a ways to go, but the fact that we’re even touching each other, talking to each other when we haven’t been intimate in over six months, tells you the power of this program.”


And this is not a rarity. Throughout the book, we have so many stories of couples that were frustrated with each other… Had shut down… Had turned to pornography instead of their partner… Or workaholism or alcoholism, and we were able to help many of them, through direct open communication exercises that we teach, to get the relationship back on track.


As long as there’s no serious addiction issues or emotional or physical abuse issues, I encourage all couples who are struggling to check out our new book, and then to reach out to me at the website below where we can work with one on one from anywhere in the world.


Marriages, relationships, are sacred. And we need to treat them as such. Changing our mindset from one of anger, frustration, and a lack of connection… To one of deep intimacy, erotic longings, and more, can help bring any couple back together.


If not now… When?“


(LIMITED TIME! Get David’s new book on love, pdf version, absolutely free right here! https://davidessel.com/free-50-flavors-of-erotic-love-book/ )

David Essel’s work is highly endorsed by individuals like the late Wayne Dyer, and celebrity Jenny Mccarthy says “David Essel is the new leader of the positive thinking movement.”


His work as a counselor and minister has been verified by organizations like Psychology Today, and marriage.com has verified David as one of the top counselors and relationship experts in the world.



To get a copy of David’s book, or to work with him one on one on your intimate relationship from anywhere in the world please visit www.DavidEssel.com



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