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Love In Our Younger Years?

Love in our Younger Years? Are you 20? 30? 40?


Here’s information to help your intimate life become the best!


It’s not easy knowing how to talk about our intimate desires. It’s not easy learning how to ask our partner about their intimate desires.


But one of the things that separate couples that have great relationships, long-term, is their willingness to learn how to communicate on a level that 90% of couples will never explore.


Are you ready?


For the past 30 years, number one best-selling author, counselor, and minister David Essel has been helping young couples, and young single people, understand the concept of communication in regards to intimacy, in regards to the bedroom, in regards to everyday life!


Below, David shares a few important key tips to could help your love life explode in the most positive of directions ever.


“ I remember being in my 20s and thinking I knew everything I needed to know about love, communication, sex, intimacy, and more.


And even though I struggled in my intimate relationships, I still felt like I knew everything.


Have you ever been there? If you’re 20, 30, or 40 years old are you still in that mindset?


If you are, we’ve got to get humble, we’ve got to get honest, and we’ve got to search out information that will help our love life stay alive and valid, as most first-time marriages still end in divorce!


But there’s a way around that, and I’m going to help you right now.


In our new top-selling book, “50+ Flavors of Erotic Love… Leaving the vanilla world for ecstasy!“, So many of the stories you’ll read about couples that revived their love life came from learning how to communicate on a totally new level.


In the book, we give exercises asking you to first get to know yourself, your body, your sensual, and sexual desires…


And then, learning the art of talking to your partner about their sensual and sexual needs and desires is extremely important…


But how many people today actually do this?


The answer is very few if any.


So in the book, we have questions that we pose to you about your desires, spaces for you to write your answers, and even if you’re single you can start to get to know yourself on a deeper level now so that when you go into that next relationship, you’ll know how to communicate your needs as well as ask your new partner about their needs.


I wrote this book as something that I wished I would have found when I was in my 20s. It would’ve solved a lot of interpersonal heartaches, relationship break ups, resentments… And it also would’ve led me to freedom.


Freedom to speak openly about my desires. Freedom to speak openly about my partner’s desires.


Instead, most of us get frustrated, our needs don’t get met, we have affairs, or we pick up an addiction, to avoid the intimate conversation.

Grab this book. I don’t even care if you’re 80 years of age, if you’ve never explored the art of communicating about intimacy at a very deep level, this book will guide you on how to do it perfectly. Every time.“


David Essel‘s work is highly endorsed by individuals like the late Wayne Dyer, and celebrity Jenny Mccarthy says “David Essel is the new leader of the positive thinking movement.“


His work as a counselor and minister has been verified by organizations like Psychology Today, and marriage.com has also verified David as one of the top counselors and relationship experts in the world.



To grab David‘s new book, or to work with him one on one as your intimate counselor from anywhere in the world please visit www.DavidEssel.com



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